Thursday, May 14, 2009

Get Your Ex Back in 3 Steps

The following are 3 more steps for you to try.

1. Accept the breakup- you need to accept this fact and tell your ex that you are okay with it, by doing so you allow the 'moving on' process to begin. This helps to eliminate a lot of stress and tension. Both of you need time to think things through. If your ex realizes that they still love you they will find a way to get back with you.

2. Don't make contact- it may be the last thing you want to do but it is important at this time. You both really need your space. It will cause them to realize how much they are missing you and wondering if you are feeling the same. They will want to know if you do and they will make the first move.

3. Plan the 'Get Together'- now you can start to plan on where and when you should meet and also what should be said when you do meet again. This meeting will allow you both to get a better idea of how the other is feeling.

Of course it can be a little more complicated than just the above steps but they are a good place to start and will improve your chances of getting your ex back.

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Tuesday, May 12, 2009

5 Ways To Get Back With Your Ex

Hi there! I am glad you are here. Whether you are dating or married you have a chance to get your ex back. It is possible.
Relationships are fragile and you need to constantly maintain them in order to keep them healthy and allow them to flourish. Break ups are hurtful and stressful and you may only want to "get back at" your ex, not get back together with them. The following 5 steps are not only good for getting back at your ex but they are excellent for getting them back!

1. Be strong- you need to stop begging or clinging or showing desperation. Let your ex think you have moved on and you are doing just fine without them. They will realize that they have not.

2. Minimize communication- cutting off the lines of communication may seem like the opposite of what you are trying to accomplish but it's one of the most important steps you can take. This will allow them to clear their mind and realize how valuable the relationship was.

3. Be flexible- don't be forceful by demanding that they move out and take their bags with them by a certain date. Be flexible, listen and sympathize. Your ex will appreciate this side of you and may desire to build the lines of communication that were once lacking.

4. Get out!- this is no time for you to be alone! Call your friends and ask for their support and enjoy some 'you' time.This doesn't mean dating or flirting it means taking time for you. This will convince your ex that they lost a treasure.

5. Be yourself- there was a reason your ex fell in love with you in the first place. By being yourself you can remind him who that person was and why he fell in love with you to begin with. You will both have a renewed sense of self-perception.

Just knowing what to do isn't always enough. You have to be willing to act.

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Just Kiss and Make Up

I know if you are here right now you are probably in a great deal of heart ache and pain. I understand…and I have been there too…so I am not going to carry on and on about the pain you feel…because I know that you know it all too well…
You already know how hard it is to just even wake up and roll out of bed in the morning. You leave your radio off on your way to work because every song is a painful reminder of him. You can't even bear to eat at the same restaurants you took her to. And if that isn't bad enough, you have to cope with the loss of friends and family that are on "their side".

Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse... have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!
Don't you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back?...or vice versa?
I bet you do…and here's the strange real clincher…
Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair…or unfaithfulness.

There is a strange kind of "magic" in making up. Why not see for yourself? Click on the link below and you'll be able to watch a video and read testimonals. The best part of a fight is the part where you get to kiss and make up!